Seat Swap Debate: What to Do When the Middle Seat Between Two Travel Companions is Assigned
A tactic some savvy couples and companions who travel together employ pertaining to securing seat assignments aboard airplanes while booking their flight reservations is to select and reserve an aisle seat and a window seat when there are three seats in a row in the hopes that the middle seat will remain empty by the time the flight is scheduled to depart…
What to Do When the Middle Seat Between Two Travel Companions is Assigned?
…but more often than not, those middle seats are assigned to a completely unrelated person — which leaves at least four scenarios to occur as a result:
The unrelated passenger remains in the middle seat between the two travel companions; but then could be the recipient of potential interaction between the two travel companions which could interrupt the peaceful enjoyment of the flight to which the passenger of the middle seat is entitled
One travel companion could volunteer to switch his or her aisle seat with the passenger in the middle seat, allowing the two travel companions to sit together while the unrelated passenger sits in the aisle seat
One travel companion could volunteer to switch his or her window seat with the passenger in the middle seat, allowing the two travel companions to sit together while the unrelated passenger sits in the window seat
The passenger seated in the middle seat could request a seat elsewhere on the airplane from a member of the flight crew — if there is another seat available
“On a recent cruise trip, Mrs. Paplover and I had aisle/window seats with the hope that the middle would be empty”, posted FlyerTalk member Paplover. “Of course not, silly me. Anyway, there were no issues with trading our window with the person in the middle after asking if they wanted to switch. Much easier that way for all of us instead of keeping the original seats.”
FlyerTalk member MSPeconomistresponded that “You were lucky that the middle person didn’t demand the aisle seat as a condition for a trade.”
When MSPeconomistreplied “So much for offering the better seat as part of a proposed trade”, FlyerTalk member sethbopined: “Huh? Most people consider window better than middle. I certainly do, even though I prefer aisle.”
MSPeconomistretorted: “No, most prefer aisle to window. The OP had a window and an aisle but wanted to sit together. Proper form would have been to offer either the window or the aisle to the person in the middle and let the current middle seat occupant choose. To offer window or nothing seems mean spirited.”
The debate then ensues from there, becoming more heated in the process.
I can understand why two travel companions would want to find a row of three empty seats and select an aisle and a window while leaving the middle seat empty: a person booking a reservation on that flight after them would most likely not select the middle seat for a seat assignment if better seats were available; and if the aircraft is not completely booked with passengers, the middle seat has a chance of remaining empty — giving the two travel companions more room at no extra cost.
If I were one of the two travel companions and booked an aisle seat and a window seat, I would do so with the expectation that that middle seat will eventually be assigned, as it is a matter of maintaining perspective and managing my expectations realistically.
Should a person show up aboard the airplane and claim to be assigned to that middle seat, I would most likely offer my seat — wherever I happen to be sitting and depending with whom I was sitting — and take the middle seat, as I will most likely be engaged in conversation with that other person. I would think that that would result in a win-win situation…
Regardless of whether you are one of the travel companions or the unlucky person who winds up sitting in a middle seat between two travel companions, what would you do? Please comment and consider participating in the poll below. Thank you in advance.